Saturday, November 04, 2006

LIFE

Life


Men take only their needs into consideration, never their abilities.
Napoleon Bonaparte


Start living now. Stop saving the good china for that special occasion. Stop withholding your love until that special person materializes. Every day you are alive is a special occasion. Every minute, every breath, is a gift from God.
Mary Manin Morrissey


You've got to sing like you don't need the money, love like you'll never get hurt. You've got to dance like no one is watching. It's gotta come from the heart, if you want it to work.
Susannah Clark


The consciousness of loving and being loved brings a warmth and richness to life that nothing else can bring.
Oscar Wilde


Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood.
Thomas Carlyle


Nor has he spent his life badly who has passed it in privacy.
Cicero


The art of life is to know how to enjoy a little and to endure very much.
William Hazlitt


Life is either a daring adventure or nothing. Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature.
Helen Keller


Life's more amusing than we thought.
Andrew Lang


As is a tale, so is life: not how long it is, but how good it is, is what matters.
Seneca


Don't be afraid your life will end; be afraid that it will never begin.
Hansen, Grace


Do not take life too seriously. You will never get out of it alive.
Hubbard, Elbert


Death is more universal than life; everyone dies but not everyone lives.
Sachs, A.


Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose.
Tehyi, Hsieh


Life without love is a shadow of things that might be.
Unknown


Some people are so afraid to die that they never begin to live.
VanDyke, Henry


Live all you can; it's a mistake not to. It doesn't so much matter what you do in particular, so long as you have your life. If you haven't had that, what have you had?
HENRY JAMES


Find a purpose in life so big it will challenge every capacity to be at your best.
David O. McKay


Life is a tragedy for those who feel, and a comedy for those who think.
Jean de la Bruyere


Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by what you bring to life.
John Homer Miller


Live not one's life as though one had a thousand years, but live each day as the last.
Marcus Aurelius Antoninus


Destiny is not a matter of chance; it is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for; it is a thing to be achieved.
William Jennings Bryan


Here is the test to find whether your mission on earth is finished: If you're alive, it isn't.
Richard Bach


Determination

Determination

I learned that if you want to make it bad enough, no matter how bad it is, you can make it.
Gale Sayers


Where there's a will there's a way.
English Proverb


Determination gives you the resolve to keep going in spite of the roadblocks that lay before you.
Denis Waitley


The surest way not to fail is to determine to succeed.
Richard B. Sheridan


If you really want something, you can figure out how to make it happen.
Cher


A determined person will do more with a pen and paper, than a lazy person will accomplish with a personal computer.
Catherine Pulsifer


The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in a person's determination.
Tommy Lasorda


If you doubt you can accomplish something, then you can't accomplish it. You have to have confidence in your ability, and then be tough enough to follow through.
Rosalyn Carter


What this power is I cannot say; all I know is that it exists and it becomes available only when a man is in that state of mind in which he knows exactly what he wants and is fully determined not to quit until he finds it.
Alexander Graham Bell


There is no chance, no destiny, no fate, that can hinder or control the firm resolve of a determined soul.
Ella Wheeler Wilcox


Don't let go of your dreams. If you have determination and belief in your dreams, you will succeed in spite of your desire to let go.
Catherine Pulsifer


A man can be as great as he wants to be. If you believe in yourself and have the courage, the determination, the dedication, the competitive drive and if you are willing to sacrifice the little things in life and pay the price for the things that are worthwhile, it can be done.
Vince Lombardi


It was courage, faith, endurance and a dogged determination to surmount all obstacles that built this bridge.
John J. Watson


So long as there is breath in me, that long I will persist. For now I know one of the greatest principles on success; if I persist long enough I will win.
Og Mandino


Within each of us is a hidden store of determination. Determination to keep us in the race when all seems lost.
Roger Dawson


Determination is the wake-up call to the human will.
Anthony Robbins


Nothing great will ever be achieved without great men, and men are great only if they are determined to be so.
Charles De Gaulle


An invincible determination can accomplish almost anything and in this lies the great distinction between great men and little men.
Dr. Thomas Fuller


Never go backward. Attempt, and do it with all your might. Determination is power.
Charles Simmons


Those who don't understand determination call determination stubbornness or too driven. To be determined is to see it through!
Catherine Pulsifer


Failure will never overtake me if my determination to succeed is strong enough.
Og Mandino


You've got to get up every morning with determination if you're going to go to bed with satisfaction.
George Lorimer


We will either find a way, or make one!
Hannibal


Never stop. One stops as soon as something is about to happen.
Peter Brock


Excuses

Excuses

He that is good for making excuses is seldom good for anything else.
Benjamin Franklin


Bad excuses are worse than none.
Thomas Fuller


He who excuses himself accuses himself.
Gabriel Meurier


Difficulty is the excuse history never accepts.
Edward R. Murrow


We have forty million reasons for failure, but not a single excuse.
Rudyard Kipling


Excuses are the nails used to build a house of failure.
Don Wilder


If you don't want to do something, one excuse is as good as another.
Yiddish Proverb


No one ever excused his way to success.
Dave Del Dotto


For many people, an excuse is better than an achievement because an achievement, no matter how great, leaves you having to prove yourself again in the future but an excuse can last for life.
Eric Hoffer


Sometimes, people use age as a convenient excuse. 'I'm to old too start something new', or, 'I couldn't learn that at my age.' Other people, though, go on to acheive their greatest accomplishments in life in later years.
Catherine Pulsifer


An excuse is worse and more terrible than a lie; for an excuse is a lie guarded.
Alexander Pope


Nothing is impossible; there are ways that lead to everything, and if we had sufficient will we should always have sufficient means. It is often merely for an excuse that we say things are impossible.
Francois La Rochefoucauld


I attribute my success to this - I never gave or took any excuse.
Florence Nightingale


People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they can't find them, make them.
George Bernard Shaw


Niney-nine percent of failures come from people who have the habit of making excuses.
George W. Carver


People with integrity do what they say they are going to do. Others have excuses.
Dr. Laura Schlessinger


DREAMS

Dreams

Among all human constructions the only ones that avoid the dissolving hands of time are castles in the air.
Frederico de Roberto


A rock pile ceases to be a rock pile the moment a single man contemplates it, bearing within him the image of a cathedral.
Antoine de Saint-Exupery


If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; there is where they should be. Now put foundations under them.
Henry David Thoreau


Dreaming is an act of pure imagination, attesting in all men a creative power, which, if it were available in waking, would make every man a Dante or a Shakespeare.
H.F. Hedge


If you can DREAM it, you can DO it.
Walt Disney


All our dreams can come true - if we have the courage to pursue them.
Walt Disney


Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you've imagined.
Henry David Thoreau


We've removed the ceiling above our dreams. There are no more impossible dreams.
Jesse Jackson


Dreams come true; without that possibility, nature would not incite us to have them.
John Updike


I have heard it said that the first ingredient of success - the earliest spark in the dreaming youth - if this; dream a great dream.
John A. Appleman


You are never given a dream without also being given the power to make it true. You may have to work for it, however.
Richard Bach


The moment of enlightenment is when a person's dreams of possibilities become images of probabilities.
Vic Braden


Don't be afraid of the space between your dreams and reality. If you can dream it, you can make it so.
Belva Davis


Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die tomorrow.
James Dean


Dream no small dreams for they have no power to move the hearts of men.
Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe


If you don't have a dream, how are you going to make a dream come true?
Oscar Hammerstein


All men of action are dreamers.
James G. Huneker


Some people follow their dreams, others hunt them down and beat them mercilessly into submission.
Neil Kendall


There are those that look at things the way they are, and ask why? I dream of things that never were, and ask why not.
Robert F. Kennedy


A dream is your creative vision for your life in the future. You must break out of your current comfort zone and become comfortable with the unfamiliar and the unknown.
K Denis Waitley


Without dreams, there is no reality!
Luis B. Couto


Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it.
Goethe


The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.
Eleanor Roosevelt


You can't just sit there and wait for people to give you that golden dream. You've got to get out there and make it happen for yourself.
Diana Ross


Man, alone, has the power to transform his thoughts into physical reality; man, alone, can dream and make his dreams come true.
Napoleon Hill


If you're going to be thinking, you may as well think big.
Donald Trump


GOALS

The reason most people never reach their goals is that they don't define them, or ever seriously consider them as believable or achievable. Winners can tell you where they are going, what they plan to do along the way, and who will be sharing the adventure with them.
Denis Watley


You don't have to be a fantastic hero to do certain things - to compete. You can be just an ordinary chap, sufficiently motivated to reach challenging goals.
Edmund Hillary


Our goals can only be reached through a vehicle of a plan, in which we must fervently believe, and upon which we must vigorously act. There is no other route to success.
Stephen A. Brennan


When we are motivated by goals that have deep meaning, by dreams that need completion, by pure love that needs expressing, then we truly live life.
Greg Anderson


Without goals, and plans to reach them, you are like a ship that has set sail with no destination.
Fitzhugh Dodson


I feel that the most important step in any major accomplishment is setting a specific goal. This enables you to keep your mind focused on your goal and off the many obstacles that will arise when you're striving to do your best.
Kurt Thomas


Life's up and downs provide windows of opportunity to determine your values and goals. Think of using all obstacles as stepping stones to build the life you want.
Marsha Sinetar


In life, as in football, you won't go far unless you know where the goalposts are.
Arnold H. Glasgow


Goals are dreams with deadlines.
Diana Scharf Hunt


Never look down to test the ground before taking your next step; only he who keeps his eye fixed on the far horizon will find his right road.
Dag Hammarskjold


You must have long term goals to keep you from being frustrated by short term failures.
Charles C. Noble


Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goals.
Sydney Smith


My philosophy of life is that if we make up our mind what we are going to make of our lives, then work hard toward that goal, we never lose - somehow we win out
Ronald Reagan


Our plans miscarry because they have no aim. When a man does not know what harbor he is making for, no wind is the right wind.
Seneca


Man is a goal seeking animal. His life only has meaning if he is reaching out and striving for his goals.
Aristotle


If you're bored with life -- you don't get up every morning with a burning desire to do things -- you don't have enough goals.
Lou Holtz


If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.
Henry David Thoreau


You can't hit a home run unless you step up to the plate. You can't catch a fish unless you put your line in the water. You can't reach your goals if you don't try.
Kathy Seligman


Crystallize your goals. Make a plan for achieving them and set yourself a deadline. Then, with supreme confidence, determination and disregard for obstacles and other people's criticisms, carry out your plan.
Paul Meyer


The trouble with not having a goal is that you can spend your life running up and down the field and never score.
Bill Copeland


Goals are not only absolutely necesary to motivate us. They are essential to really keep us alive.
Robert H. Schuller


If you have a goal in life that takes a lot of energy, that requires a lot of work, that incurs a great deal of interest and that is a challenge to you, you will always look forward to waking up to see what the new day brings.
Susan Polis Schultz


You have to set goals that are almost out of reach. If you set a goal that is attainable without much work or thought, you are stuck with something below your true talent and potential.
Steve Garvey


Choosing a goal and sticking to it changes everything.
Scott Reed


The tragedy of life doesn't lie in not reaching your goal. The tragedy lies in having no goals to reach.
Benjamin Mays


Goals determine what you're going to be.
Julius Erving


Think little goals and expect little achievements. Think big goals and win big success.
David Joseph Schwartz


Progress has little to do with speed, but much to do with direction.
Author Unknown


Whoever wants to reach a distant goal must take small steps.
Helmut Schmidt


To acheive happiness, we should make certain that we are never without an important goal.
Earl Nightingale


The world makes way for the man who knows where he is going.
Ralph Waldo Emereson


When you determine what you want, you have made the most important decision in your life. You have to know what you want in order to attain it.
Douglas Lurtan


Great minds have purposes, others have dreams.
Washington Irving


You measure the size of the accomplishment by the obstacles you had to overcome to reach your goals.
Booker T. Washington


I learned that if you want to make it bad enough, no matter how bad it is, you can make it.
Gale Sayers


The most important thing about goals is having one.
Geoffry F. Abert


It takes a person with a mission to succeed.
Clarence Thomas


Set your goals high, and don't stop till you get there.
Bo Jackson


Be sure to take the most direct route to your dreams. Never take your eyes off your goal, or you will loose course. Never look back in sorrow, or you will trip.
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Success is the progressive realization of a worthy goal or ideal.
Earl Nightingale


Goals help focus you on areas in both your personal and professional life that are important and meaningful, rather than being guided by what other people want you to be, do, or accomplish.
Catherine Pulsifer


Your goals are the road maps that guide you and show you what is possible for your life.
Les Brown


First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do.
Epictetus


What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals.
Zig Ziglar


The great thing in this world is not so much where we are, but in what direction we are moving.
Oliver Wendell Holmes


By losing your goal, You have lost your way.
Friedrich Nietzsche


You have to know what you want to get.
Gertrude Stein


You've got to be very careful if you don't know where you are going, because you might not get there.
Yogi Berra


People with goals succeed because they know where they're going.
Earl Nightingale


It doesn't matter where you are coming from. All that matters is where you are going.
Brian Tracy


Shoot for the moon, even if you miss, you'll land amongst the stars..
Les Brown


The unfortunate aspect about living life without your own goals is that you may very well reach a point in your life where you will wonder, 'what would have happened if I had only done...
Catherine Pulsifer


Do it now. You become successful the moment you start moving toward a worthwhile goal.
Unknown



Step-By-Step Goal Setting Tutorial- ( 7 STEP )

Step-By-Step Goal Setting Tutorial- Total of 7- STEP.

Step1 > Step2 > Step 3 > Step 4 > Step 5 > Step 6 > Step 7 .

Step 1: Choose a Goal

You should start with one goal and stay focused on this goal at least for 30 days.

If after 30 days you feel you’re doing well and getting closer to the desired outcome you can start with the second goal.

The simple rule is: Don’t set a lot of goals at the same time.
You won’t achieve any. The key to goal setting is staying focused.
And it is impossible to focus at many goals at the same time.

Start with the most important one. Have you chose one?

Step 2: Intensify your Desire to Achieve your Goal.
Have you ever failed to achieve your goals?

Do you know the single most important reason why you couldn’t reach it?

The answer is simple: Because we did not have a strong enough desire.

Some may argue with that. "But I did have a strong desire and still I didn't get there."

Sorry, but if you didn’t reach your goal your desire was still not strong enough.

So what is the intense desire, passion?

It's what keeps people working all hours, up early, late to bed. The desire dominates conversation, thinking, actions.

Take a moment to think about the goal you've set for yourself.

  • How committed are you to achieving this goal?

  • Under what conditions would you give up?

  • What if you wanted them so badly that you knew with absolute certainty that you would absolutely, positively never ever give up?

Make sure your desire is strong enough and......

Step 3: Develop a Strong Belief That You Can Achieve Your Goal.

If you don't believe you can reach a goal you won’t.

If there is any doubt in your mind that you can achieve something, you don't give it your all. In fact, you may very well just set it aside. In order to fully achieve anything, you must believe it is possible at a cellular level.

If you believe that you can be successful, that you'll enjoy being successful, then you will be successful.


Do you really believe you can achieve your goal?
If yes,.. c

Step 4: Set a Deadline for Your Goal.
Set a realistic date when you plan to accomplish your goal.

Don’t commit to “as soon as possible”!

If you don’t have a specific deadline for your goal, you won’t have a sense of urgency and you’ll start to put things off. What’s the hurry, if you don’t have a deadline?

Deadline will move you to action!


After you set a deadline it's time to . Set a realistic date when you plan to accomplish your goal.

Don’t commit to “as soon as possible”!

If you don’t have a specific deadline for your goal, you won’t have a sense of urgency and you’ll start to put things off. What’s the hurry, if you don’t have a deadline?

Deadline will move you to action!


After you set a deadline it's time to Go to the next ...



Step 5: Write Your Goal Down.
You’ve probably heard hundreds of times that
it is crucial to write your goal down.

But do you know why this step is so important?

When you put pen to paper you turn your thoughts into something tangible.

You can actually see it, touch it, and even smell it if you want to.

Your goal is no longer just a thought!

It becomes something, what motivates us and creates a gut feeling inside.

Even the act of using the eye in coordination with the hand holding

the pen makes a much stronger impression on our mind as we


write out the phrase or expression.

Now when we read and re-read that phrase or sentence the impression

on the mind becomes deeper and deeper.

There is something semi-magical about writing one's goals down which

makes achieving well-written goals an almost certainty.

Write your goal down and.......
Step 6: Break Your Goal Down ToMini-Goals
Now is the time to start planning the route towards your goal!

We’ll start by breaking up your big goal into smaller mini-goals.

Most people fail to achieve their goal simply because they don’t

break them down into smaller steps. All they can see is this big

overwhelming goal they’ve set for themselves and they

don’t know where to start working on it!

  • Mini-goals let you track your progress more efficiently
  • Mini-goals are not so overwhelming
  • Mini-goals are easier to achieve
  • Mini-goals let you feel the progress.

Every goal can be broken into mini goals. Mini goals should never

be too difficult or too long. You don’t want to be overwhelmed by them.

Ask yourself: “What steps do I need to take to achieve my goal?”

These steps will be your mini-goals.

After defining your mini-goals.....

Step 7: Define Your Tasks for EveryMini-Goal..

We’re going to make it even easier. We’ll break down every

mini-goal into small easy-to-accomplish tasks.

Tasks are usually the simple things you must do to accomplish a mini-goal.

If you've set a mini-goal, for example, to have a complete understanding

about investing in bonds by June 15th, you will have to accomplish

a number of tasks for acquiring that knowledge.

  • Choosing to go to the library and get a book on bonds would be a task.

  • Reading the book for one hour on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday,

  • could be three separate tasks.

  • Visiting the Investors Skills' website for their bond information would be another task.

  • Calling your buddy who's had success in the bond market would be a task as well.

All of these tasks must be set with a deadline.

By focusing your mind on the easy-to-accomplish tasks, and completing those tasks,

you'll be making great progress towards your mini-goals without feeling overwhelmed.

Make sure to write down ALL tasks, even those that take only minutes to complete.

Then, when they're accomplished, check them off.

As more and more tasks are successfully accomplished, and checked off,

you'll find yourself becoming more encouraged, and more confident about your abilities.

And the more tasks you complete on time, the closer you'll be to success.....